Certain publications have actually ranked him high on the list of Carrie's boyfriends.
To me, and most women who are religious watchers of Sex and the City, Berger has to be the worst possible boyfriend in Sex and the City history.
Berger seemed nice at first. He was funny, smart, cute, and a writer like Carrie. Carrie was consumed with him and wanted to date him immediately.
Part of me thinks she was only lonely, something she claimed at her book party, but I can see her attraction to him.
However, it was clear from the beginning how wrong he was for her and in life.
First, he collects playing cards and must sleep with a sound machine, courtesy of his ex. Red flags, anyone?
His true colors begin to show as their relationship continues. As Carrie's book becomes more and more successful, Berger begins to be threatened by her success and honestly just looks like a weak man who can't stand to be around strong and powerful women. Which I experience on a daily basis, and it is absolutely demeaning and frustrating.
I am still very confused as to why she wanted to be with him. Not only is he a total jerk and scared of women who are opinionated, but he also was not good in bed and they had to make the bed a restaurant in order to have good sex. Big freaking red flag.
But, the absolute worst thing that Berger did was how he broke up with Carrie.
Need I say more?
The Post-It Note break up has got to be the worst break up in history by any lowlife scumbag man. I mean honestly, how can you end any relationship by bringing a woman flowers, staying the night, and then disappear the next morning only leaving a post-it note saying you "can't".
I actually never thought I would have an experience like this, but I have. It's completely hurtful and childish.
Sigma Kappa had a date party just last night and I had a date and everything. He was cute and seemed really nice and seemed excited. We had talked for a few days and we were getting along great. He even said so! So when I did not hear from him yesterday at all, I was totally humiliated. I think guys think I want some serious relationship or marriage when all I want is someone to talk to and go to socials with. Literally last minute, this guy bails after not speaking to me, when I had tried to contact him. No apologies, no nothing. Haven't heard from him since.
I went to the date party anyway because I can't change who I am. I am opinionated, smart, aggressive, and a little bitchy. Okay, a lot bitchy. But I am not the ideal girl that these boys go after. You know the ones, the girls who have zero brains and nothing to say and just stand there next to some boy and look pretty.
See, that's not me. That's not Carrie, either. We are both strong and smart women who speak their minds and that is nothing to be ashamed of.
So, instead of messing around with these boys who will never want me, I just have to wait for the right man who will love my sick sense of humor, my sometimes obnoxious nature, and my opinions.
Also, boys only break up with girls through a Post-It or text. Men would never let you go.
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